While it’s easy to view someone you're dating with rose-colored glasses, it is also important to take them off and see their traits are not favorable in the long term. Here are some signs to watch for during your first few dates:
Disrespectful Behavior: We always hear about dates that are rude to servers or show no decorum at the movie theatre. However, how someone behaves toward others often reflects how they’ll eventually treat you, and it’s important to note this attitude immediately.
Poor Communication: While not answering a text for a few hours could simply be how often they check their phone, if they choose to ignore you over periods, flake out on dates set days before the last minute, or overall have a different style of communication, they’re probably not the one.
Too Much Too Soon: On the opposite of poor communication, you might meet someone whose attachment style is blowing up your phone and wanting to see you every second after only meeting once or twice. Finding the balance of communication styles is important for you to work, and if you’re not a fan of them being around 24/7 in the beginning, this person might not be suitable for you.
Lack of Boundaries: If your date invades your personal space, makes inappropriate comments, or ignores boundaries, it’s a major red flag. Respect is foundational for any healthy relationship; it's over before it starts if they can’t do that.
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